Nowadays, it seems that there are two prevailing choices when it comes to religion. Either to believe in a personal God, or not to believe in any God at all. If one truly believes in a God, then it is pretty much expected that one believes in the possibility of a day-to-day relationship with God that has the same characteristics of human relationships (especially parent-child). God loves us, we love God. He takes care of our needs, and we praise him, and thank him for doing so. We live according to “his word” or he punishes us- just like Mum and Dad, or Grandma and Grandpa.
Is it possible that we are wrong about the relationship between God (assuming such a deity exists) and man? Could the way that we are wrong about this relationship be a root cause for the failure of religion – as evidenced by the amount of global violence and oppression in the name of religion, and rampant spiritual skepticism? Just as the relationship between a child and its parents has to change in order for the child to mature psychologically, does our relationship with a “Heavenly Father” need to change, in order for humanity to mature spiritually?
Personally, I struggle with the idea of a universal God who attends to the inner workings and destiny of this universe (and any others that may exist), yet who is still personal enough to watch over and intervene in our moment-to-moment lives. Is it possible that our so-called “personal relationship with God” is just a relationship with our own projections of hope, fear, and other emotions?
It’s very comforting to believe (or to know – for those who believe that they KNOW) that we have a personal relationship with an all-powerful, all-knowing, omnipotent being in whose “image” we were created. Has our comfort and need for a loving Heavenly Father created a mass delusion, which cripples – rather than empowers – true spirituality? Is our relationship with God based on spirituality, or emotional needs and wishful thinking?
Sometimes a person will say “God has blessed me” because they find a $20.00 bill on the street. Does it really seem likely that the creator of the Universe somehow arranged events just so that we can find some cash lying in the street? Maybe it’s true… It just doesn’t seem very likely to me. Random chance seems more likely to me: someone just dropped the money, without any Divine Intervention.
People may say “It was God’s will”, when they recover from some chronic illness. So whose will would it have been had they NOT recovered – the Devil’s? If “God is GOOD” then when “bad” things happen (especially to Good people) whose will was that? Is is possible that our concept of God’s will, and of Good and Evil is grossly – and conveniently – oversimplified?
It seems so important to many religious people to invoke the presence of a Universal God in as many aspects of mundane, earthly life as possible. I’ve actually seen people get royally pissed and offended because they sneezed and a “God Bless You” wasn’t forthcoming? Why? What does God have to do with irritants and mucus being forcefully expelled from the nasal passages? I’ve heard people say that it was God Almighty who was responsible for waking them up – like some Divine alarm clock. Then there is the whole idea of having God bless our food (I wonder if God condones the conditions of the slaughter-houses from where the food he is supposedly “blessing” originates).
What if the idea of an ubiquitous personal God is completely wrong? Assuming the existence of a God, what if “he” is as interested and involved in our daily lives as we would be in ant-hill; or a cloud of gnats being blown hither and thither in the wind; or a hair follicle under our left armpit?
What if God couldn’t give a hoot if a particular person got out of bed – or if they even existed? What if God did NOT cause a money to fall out of the pocket of a sinner just so we could “tithe ten percent” of it to the church – after buying the groceries that God somehow knew we needed with the rest?
What if our cancer isn’t in remission because we are in God’s grace (while the “un-graced” die in agony), but because of successful chemotherapy? What if the food we didn’t pray over and thank God for, nourished our bodies just as well, or was excreted just as efficiently as food that did NOT have the benefit of our prayers?
Would it really be so terrible if the God of the entire Universe had infinitely more important tasks to attend to than our mostly self-centered little lives? When we praise God, and thank God, and glorify God is it REALLY out of love for God, or out of fear for ourselves?
After all, if we keep up with the praising and thanking and glorifying, surely God will continue to “bless” us! If we develop a personal relationship with God, why would he not continue to hear and answer our prayers? If we love God with all our hearts, why WOULDN’T goodness and mercy follow us all the days of our lives… all the way up to the Pearly Gates, to guarantee us a place in Heaven – instead of writhing for an eternity in Hell?
When we confess and ask forgiveness for our sins, is it because we feel oh-so-badly about disobeying and disappointing God (if we believe in God) or because we fear divine punishment for them? Given a choice between sincere repentance, and never-ending third-degree burns, wouldn’t most of us choose the sincere repentance… it’s a no-brainer – but is it real repentance?
If God were a human relationship partner, how long would the relationship last? I think it would last about five seconds after God realized that the value of the relationship in our eyes, was all about what he has done, is doing, and can do for us.
If we can accept the possibility that the nature of our “relationship” with God is based more on human need and projections than spiritual reality, aren’t we then free to explore a relationship that is more spiritually empowering for humanity than at present. What might such a relationship look like?